Quality over Quantity

As a feminine woman, she is always looking to the best for herself, for her family and those around her. She understands that as sensitive beings we have receptors that allow us to respond to every aspect of our environment. From the company she keeps, food she eats, the things she watches and listens to, the conversations she partakes in, and the clothes she put on her body.

Trends are not the concern of woman who is comfortable with herself. She wears what makes her feel her prettiest. That embodies dignity and grace. What doesn’t stand in the way of her having productive days and she knows when and where these items are the most appropriate. She is less impressed by who’s name is on the label and more excited for a new quality piece to add to her feminine wardrobe.

A feminine woman is resourceful. If she’s paying top dollars for clothing it is far less about keeping up with what everyone else is doing and more about, will it last? Is it durable?

Being emotional beings, we tend to have an emotional attachment to the things we have. Not an unhealthy attachment. We don’t want to lose our minds if our shoes get stepped on or the kids smudge chocolate on us, but we want quality. Having a closet filled with hundreds of articles of clothing and shoes makes a feminine woman question her need? Practice moderation and not doing unnecessary spending. Practicing gratitude every day, she’s mindful of how much she indulges in the things that she enjoys. Making the family’s dollars stretch is what she prides herself on. Helping others with her “extra”. Any man would praise his wife for that. Sewing her own clothes with quality fabrics--her skill set is top tier.

The way a feminine woman carry herself is truly captivating. Her level of confidence is shown but you rarely hear her express it. She doesn’t overcompensate. We do that. We put so much emphasis on the external things and never get to fixing and healing the spirit of hate, jealousy, envy, competition, and greed. Making it harder for us as women to cheer each other on or show up for our husbands without dominating. Take care of yourself! So, you can show up as your authentic self. Sometimes we can get lost in all the glitz and glam. Wearing a face filled with make-up and a head full of hair that is not our own. Proud. If I, as your femininity coach showed up in an artificial form, how can I teach you to be a confident feminine woman if I can’t show up in my authentic form? Don’t get caught up in what one says, truly observe them. Are they who they say they are aside from the fake.

The beauty of femininity is that a poor woman can embody it. I love that.

Consider every aspect of you. Remember, Quality over Quantity.

Natural Fabrics come from 2 primary sectors of nature; animals, vegetables and minerals produce fibres that can be used in fabric production.

Natural fibers are popular for many different reasons, as the fabric is generally more environmentally friendly and durable. Absorbent. Natural fibers have an incredibly high absorbency, as the fibers, both plant and animal, have a strong affinity for water.

Silk: a fine, strong, soft lustrous fibre produced by silkworms in cocoons and collected to make thread and fabric. Silk is also spun by some insect larvae and by most spiders.

Cotton: a soft white fibrous substance that surrounds the seeds of a tropical and subtropical plant and is used as textile fiber and thread for sewing.

Wool: the fine, soft curly or wavy hair forming the coat of a sheep, goat, or similar animal, especially when shorn and prepared for use in making cloth or yarn.

Linen: cloth woven from flax.

EFFECTS OF SYNTHETIC FABRICS:

1. Flammable- Usually not recommended while cooking in the kitchen.

2. Health risk- endocrine disrupters and also cause certain type of cancers, As the polyester fibre is bad conductor of heat and sweat, it is responsible for acute skin rashes, redness, and itching. On wearing for a long time, it can cause acute and chronic respiratory infections.

3. Enviromental: When heat is applied the fibres release toxic gas that is unsafe for humans, and environment. When broken down they will never degrade into the earth.

Synthetic fibers include According to Wikipedia

· Rayon (1894) artificial silk

· Vinyon (1939)

· Saran (1941)

· Spandex (1959)

· Vinalon (1939)

· Aramids (1961) - known as Nomex, Kevlar and Twaron

· Modal (1960s)

· Dyneema/Spectra (1979)

· PBI (Polybenzimidazole fiber) (1983)

· Sulfar (1983)

· Lyocell (1992) (artificial, not synthetic)

· PLA (2002)

· M-5 (PIPD fiber)

· Orlon

· Zylon (PBO fiber)

· Vectran (TLCP fiber) made from Vectra LCP polymer

· Derclon

Semi Synthetic fibers are natural and synthetic blends like:

· Rayon mainly comes from wood pulp.

· Modal often comes from beech trees.

· Bamboo viscose comes from bamboo grass.

· Seacell comes from seaweed.

Note: It takes time to completely convert your wardrobe to 100% fabrics, however, try to provide top quality fibres to put on you and your family's body. I still have some items that are made of synthetic fabrics like dress slips, workout gear, swim wear and stocking/leggings. The transition has been eye-opening! If you do have items that are synthetic, I would monitor how often they're worn and avoid them during sleeping because of the moisture that accumulates throughout the night. Consider your bedding as well. They make it so hard to find 100% natural fiber clothing these days, but it is possible. Check out our online boutique.